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ADHD. A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith for Women

A practical companion for Christian women living with ADHD

ADHD. A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith for Women

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You love God. You keep losing your place in your own prayers.

You have read the habit books. You have bought the planners, set the alarms, and put the Bible beside the coffee machine. Some weeks it works. Then life intervenes, and the old accusation arrives: if you really cared, you would manage this.

This book suggests that the problem was never your effort. With warmth, honesty and a little humor, it walks through prayer that wanders, emotions that go to ten, hormones nobody explained, marriage, motherhood, work and church, and it helps you build a spiritual and practical life that fits the mind you actually have.

Who this book is for

It is written for Christian women who live with ADHD, or who wonder if they might, and who want prayer, Scripture and everyday life to fit the mind they actually have. It speaks to wives, mothers, women at work and women who sit in church wondering why everyone else seems to cope.

What is inside

Nine chapters over 232 pages:

  • When ADHD Meets Faith
  • Prayer, Scripture and a Wandering Mind
  • The Emotional Weather Inside
  • Hormones Are Not a Footnote
  • Loving People with a Loud Brain
  • Motherhood on Hard Mode
  • Work, Calling and the Fifteen Tabs
  • Church, Where Everyone Seems to Cope
  • Growing Older, Growing Kinder

The book also includes a note on care and a page about the author.

Ebook and printed book

Ebook (PDF + EPUB, one purchase). The PDF keeps the same pages as the printed edition, for a computer, a tablet or printing at home. The EPUB adapts to the size of your screen: open it in Apple Books or an e-reader app, or send it to your Kindle with Amazon's Send to Kindle.

Printed book. A 232-page softcover, US Trade size (6 x 9 inches), printed in black and white.

About the author

Diane R. Bennett writes about faith, grief, healing and all the ordinary moments in between. She has been journaling and writing online since 2012, leads a women's Bible study, and lives with ADHD.

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Key details

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Format
Printed Book
Language
English
Production time
3–5 business days
Dimensions
US Trade · 6 × 9 in · 15.24 × 22.86 cm
Cover type
Soft
SKU
HN-BK-261108-01-PB-EN

About this product

Author / Creator
Diane R. Bennett
Publisher
Hearts Notes
Pages
232
Chapters
9 chapters
Published
2026
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Does this sound familiar?

Your mind is loud, and your faith never feels steady.

You start to pray, and you are already thinking about tomorrow’s list. You open your Bible, and ten minutes later you are somewhere else. Then comes the quiet question: what does this say about my faith?

  • My prayers keep wandering, and I feel like I’m failing.

    Chapter 2 treats returning as a form of prayer, and offers words to borrow when your own keep disappearing.

  • Everything goes to ten, and then I feel guilty about it.

    Chapter 3 looks at the emotional weather inside you, and at how God meets you in the weather you have.

  • Nobody ever explained what my hormones were doing.

    Chapter 4 covers the monthly cycle, postpartum and perimenopause, because hormones are not a footnote.

  • Everyone at church seems to cope.

    Chapter 8 is about the Sunday morning sprint, the good Christian woman mask, and finding your actual seat.

A quieter mind and a steadier faith do not start with trying harder. They start with understanding the brain God gave you.

How it works

Three ways to read it.

Start where your week is hardest, read a short page, and come back to it.

  1. A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith by Diane R. Bennett, open on two inside pages (first spread)

    Start where life is hardest

    Nine chapters cover prayer, emotions, hormones, marriage, motherhood, work, church and growing older. Begin with the one that matches your week.

  2. A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith by Diane R. Bennett, open on two inside pages (second spread)

    Read it in short pages

    Each chapter is made of short pages, with titles like “Three Seconds of Room” and “A Small Practice You Can Return To”.

  3. A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith by Diane R. Bennett, open on two inside pages (third spread)

    Read it your way

    The ebook gives you the PDF, with the same 232 pages as the printed edition, and an EPUB that adapts to your phone or e-reader. Or hold the printed softcover.

A faith-based companion, not a substitute for medical care. The book includes a note on care.

Who it’s for

This book is for…

If your prayers wander, your emotions run hot and everyone else seems to cope, this book was written with you in mind.

  • Christian women living with ADHD

    Faith that makes room for how your mind really works.

  • Women who wonder if they might have ADHD

    Honest, warm chapters for the questions you have been carrying quietly.

  • Wives and mothers

    Chapters on loving people with a loud brain, and on motherhood on hard mode.

  • Women at work and in church

    For the fifteen open tabs at work, and the Sunday morning where everyone seems to cope.

A faith-based companion, not a replacement for professional care.

WHO IT IS FOR

Wives, mothers, women at work, women in church.

This companion is written for Christian women who live with ADHD, or who wonder if they might. It speaks to the wife, the mother, the woman at work and the woman in the pew who has wondered why everyone else seems to cope. If that is you, this book was written for you.

Front cover of A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith by Diane R. Bennett, the book lying flat

PRAYER, SCRIPTURE AND A WANDERING MIND

Fifteen minutes later, her coffee is cold.

Her Bible is still open to the same page, and her journal contains a sentence that ends halfway through a thought. You will know the scene. Chapter two meets it with warmth, honesty and a little humor.

A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith by Diane R. Bennett, open on two inside pages

NINE CHAPTERS FOR REAL LIFE

Emotions, hormones, marriage, motherhood, work and church.

Each chapter takes one part of your life and looks at it with warmth and honesty: prayer and Scripture, emotions, hormones, relationships, motherhood, work and calling, church, and growing older.

Front cover, spine and back cover of A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith by Diane R. Bennett

YOU WERE NEVER A DEFECTIVE VERSION

You were never a defective version of a neurotypical woman.

Diane R. Bennett writes about faith, grief, healing and all the ordinary moments in between. She lives with ADHD, and she wrote this book for women who do too.

Back cover of A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith by Diane R. Bennett, the book lying flat

In short

What this book offers

  • Prayer and Scripture for a wandering mind.
  • Honest chapters on emotions, hormones, marriage, motherhood, work and church.
  • Nine chapters and 232 pages, as an ebook (PDF + EPUB) or a printed softcover.
  • A note on care, and a page about the author.
ADHD and faith. Someone finally talks about both.
I've read books about ADHD before, but never one that connected it to my relationship with God. The part about feeling guilty for struggling with prayer really hit home.
Emily R., early reader (free copy)
Inside the book

What is inside ADHD. A Quieter Mind, A Steadier Faith for Women

A clear look at the nine chapters and the short pages inside each one.

Chapter 1 When ADHD Meets Faith 10 pages
  • When Discipline Becomes a Verdict
  • The Orchestra You Keep Blaming
  • The Difference Between Sin and Symptom
  • A Brain God Already Knows
  • Grace Does Not Cancel Responsibility
  • The Woman Under the Backpack
  • When the Problem Is the Fit
  • What ADHD Does Not Excuse
  • The Faithful Brain You Actually Have
  • Put Down the Verdict
Chapter 2 Prayer, Scripture and a Wandering Mind 9 pages
  • The Quiet Time That Became a Test
  • Returning Is a Form of Prayer
  • Anchored Prayer: Giving Attention Somewhere to Settle
  • Borrowing Words When Your Own Keep Disappearing
  • Reading Scripture Without Turning It Into a Debt
  • When the Season Changes
  • The Prayer You Cannot Finish
  • A Small Practice You Can Return To
  • God Receives the Scattered Prayer
Chapter 3 The Emotional Weather Inside 6 pages
  • When Everything Goes to Ten
  • The Pain of Possible Rejection
  • The Trouble with Being a Quiet and Gentle Woman
  • Anger Is Not a Spiritual Emergency
  • Three Seconds of Room
  • God Meets You in the Weather You Have
Chapter 4 Hormones Are Not a Footnote 8 pages
  • The Ambush
  • The Monthly Cycle and the Vanishing Margin
  • Postpartum: When the Systems Stop Working
  • Perimenopause: The Second Hit
  • The Question of Medication
  • The Body God Made
  • Learning the Shape of Your Seasons
  • A Different Kind of Faithfulness
Chapter 5 Loving People with a Loud Brain 6 pages
  • When Love Doesn't Look Like Love
  • Marriage and the Parent-Child Trap
  • The Conversation You Keep Interrupting
  • The Text Message Graveyard
  • The Apology That Leaves Room for Both People
  • Let Love Become Visible
Chapter 6 Motherhood on Hard Mode 6 pages
  • When One Brain Runs the Whole House
  • The Mother We Think We Are Supposed to Be
  • Good Mothering and Good Administration
  • A Family Culture That Leaves Room to Be Human
  • The Gifts Hidden in the Chaos
  • The Mother Your Children Know
Chapter 7 Work, Calling and the Fifteen Tabs 6 pages
  • The Myth of the Steady Plodder
  • The Interest-Based Nervous System
  • Fifteen Tabs Open
  • Making the Boring Work Possible
  • What Does Calling Require?
  • A Desk God Can Use
Chapter 8 Church, Where Everyone Seems to Cope 6 pages
  • The Sunday Morning Sprint
  • The Good Christian Woman Mask
  • The Volunteer Trap
  • Finding Your Actual Seat
  • The Body Needs Your Brain
  • Your Seat Is Yours
Chapter 9 Growing Older, Growing Kinder 5 pages
  • The Years You Cannot Get Back
  • The Long Obedience of Being Kind to Yourself
  • Getting Older and Putting Down the Performance
  • The Work God Is Doing in You
  • A Place to Rest
9 chapters 232 pages

Questions about this product

I love God and I keep losing my place in my own prayers. Is this for me?

Yes. It is written for Christian women who live with ADHD, or wonder if they might, and who want prayer, Scripture and everyday life to fit the mind they actually have. It speaks to wives, mothers, women at work and women who sit in church wondering why everyone else seems to cope.

I have tried every habit book and planner. Why would this be different?

It suggests the problem was never your effort. It starts with “When Discipline Becomes a Verdict” and “The Difference Between Sin and Symptom”, then helps you build a spiritual and practical life that fits your mind, with warmth, honesty and a little humor.

What does it cover?

Nine chapters over 232 pages: when ADHD meets faith, prayer and a wandering mind, the emotional weather inside, hormones, loving people with a loud brain, motherhood, work and calling, church, and growing older. It also includes a note on care and a page about the author.

Which should I choose, the ebook or the printed book?

Both have the same 232 pages and both are on this page. The Ebook (PDF + EPUB) is instant: your files arrive by email right after payment, to read on a screen or print at home. The Printed Book is a softcover with a matte cover on 60# white paper, printed to order and shipped free with tracking. Pick the ebook to start today or to print yourself; pick the printed book to hold, write in and keep.

Is there a printed book? Where is it printed, and how long until it arrives?

Yes. Choose “Printed Book” on this page: a 232-page softcover (perfect bound), US Trade size (6 × 9 inches), printed in black and white on 60# white paper, with a matte cover. It is printed in the country closest to you. Our print partner, Lulu, has print facilities in the United States, Australia, Canada, France, India and the United Kingdom. For example, if you order from the USA, the book is printed and shipped locally. The printer is chosen automatically, so we cannot promise one specific country. It is made to order, so allow 3–5 business days for production, then shipping. Shipping on printed books is free and tracked, to the US and to international destinations. Customs or import duties in your country are not included.

Does it cover hormones, motherhood and church, or only prayer?

All of them. There are whole chapters on hormones (the monthly cycle, postpartum, perimenopause, and the question of medication), on motherhood, on work, and on church.

How is it different from ADHD: The Christian Woman’s Guidebook for a God-Wired Mind?

This is a 232-page book to read like a conversation, with warmth and stories. The Guidebook is a 60-page illustrated workbook with 10 guided exercises. Choose this for a longer read and the Guidebook for a short, practical workbook.

What do I get with the ebook, and how do I receive it?

Nothing is posted. After payment you receive an email with your download link: one PDF (the same pages as the Printed Book option on this page, for a computer, a tablet or printing at home) and one EPUB (adapts to the size of your screen, for a phone or an e-reader app), plus your license document.

Can I read the ebook on a Kindle, an iPhone or an iPad?

Yes. Send the EPUB to your Kindle with Amazon’s Send to Kindle (free app or your Send to Kindle email address). On an iPhone or an iPad, open the EPUB in Apple Books, or open the PDF in Files or any PDF reader.

Which license should I pick, Standard or Unlimited Use?

Standard covers up to 2 people in total, including you. Unlimited Use covers everyone in your licensed group, such as a family, a class, a church or a study group. With both, you can read, print and share the file within the people covered. You cannot resell it or post it publicly. The license is for this one title.

Can I look inside before I buy?

Yes. There is a free preview on this page, so you can see the pages and the style before you decide.

Does this replace medical care?

No. It is a faith-based companion, and the book includes a note on care. It does not diagnose ADHD or replace your doctor or therapist.

What if it is not right for me?

Printed books: contact us within 30 days of delivery and we will tell you how to return it. Ebooks: contact us within 7 days of purchase and we will review your situation. Write to us first, before sending anything back.

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