He says he'll be ready in five minutes. Far longer passes, and he's still in the middle of something else. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

You ask him to do something. He genuinely means to, agrees warmly, and then it simply doesn't happen. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He forgets things that matter to you. A conversation, a plan, something you asked him to remember. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He starts projects with real passion and leaves them unfinished. Half-read books, half-built plans, hobbies tried and dropped. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

Important paperwork, bills, or appointments slip through the cracks unless someone stays on top of them. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He loses or misplaces everyday things. Keys, wallet, phone, the thing he was just holding. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He struggles to start tasks he knows are important, sometimes putting them off for days or freezing entirely. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

You're telling him something and partway through you can tell he's drifted. His eyes move, his attention is elsewhere. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

When something does capture his interest, he can disappear into it for hours, losing track of time and everything around him. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He gets pulled into screens, games, or hobbies in a way that's hard for him to step away from. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He's restless, fidgety, or always needs to be moving, tapping, or doing something with his hands. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He interrupts, finishes sentences, or jumps in before others are done speaking. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He makes quick decisions or purchases on impulse, sometimes regretting them later. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

His energy and productivity swing widely. Some days he accomplishes everything, other days almost nothing. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He feels emotions intensely. Frustration, excitement, hurt, all at full volume, sometimes more than the moment seems to call for. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

Gentle criticism or feedback seems to land hard, sometimes triggering a strong reaction or withdrawal. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

He goes quiet or shuts down when overwhelmed, rather than talking it through. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

When you're out of sight, you sometimes feel out of mind. He doesn't reach out the way you would. How often is this him?

Yes, very often. This is exactly him

You've slowly become the one who keeps track of everything, the reminders, the schedule, the mental load. How often is this you?

Yes, very often. This is exactly us

People who don't live with him see him as easygoing, charming, or fine, while you carry the parts they don't see. How often is this true?

Yes, very often. This is exactly us

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